A Bolt
Out Of The Blue
- chapter 1
Book excerpt from 'No Longer I'
by Major Howard Webber
‘I have something I need to say before you go,’ Miss Barrett
called out as I closed the lounge door, so I opened it again
and stepped back into the room. Following a brief preamble she
got to the point of why she had called me back, ‘I need to
tell you that you are the worst officer (minister) this corps
(church) has ever had!’
I felt as though I had been hit by a brick and stood there
stunned, not knowing how to react to what I had heard. What
she said came as such a shock, totally unexpectedly. After a
moment’s hesitation, I meekly thanked her, (don’t ask me why?)
and stepped back into the hallway. Letting myself out and
shutting the door behind me, I walked down the garden path to
my car in a daze. ‘Had I heard right? Not one of the worst
amongst lesser mortals, but
the worst, the very
least of the least, lowest of the low. How could she have come
to that conclusion?’ I got into my car, closed the door and
put my key into the ignition, but I was unable to turn it,
start the engine and drive away, for I could not restrain the
tears welling up inside me. The dam burst and I broke down and
wept like a baby, inconsolably, like I hadn’t wept for many a
long year.
When first my wife and I arrived in this North Wales village,
to take charge of what was our first corps following training,
we commenced visiting and getting to know everyone recorded on
our rolls. Dear Miss Barrett was well into her eighties. She
had very poor sight and this, together with her walking
difficulties and the distance from her home to our hall,
prevented her from venturing out to worship. She had outlived
her peer group and gradually, over many years, her name had
ascended to the top of our soldiers’ (members’) roll; she was
our number one!
When we called on her she was delighted to see us and welcomed
us into the area. Subsequently, knowing this dear old soul
rarely got out of the house and did not have any close family,
when I was passing by I called in to see her. It was no big
effort on my part as she lived just off the main road between
our village and the nearest town ten miles away.
Miss Barrett was always kind and courteous, insisting on
making me tea served from a silver teapot into bone china
cups, accompanied by a plate of chocolate biscuits. Concerned
at her poor sight and frailty, I would offer to make the tea
for her or at least carry the tray from the kitchen to the
lounge, but she was emphatic, insistent that she was quite
capable of doing it herself. So I would watch attentively,
ready to jump to her aid as she came through the door and
gingerly made her way across the lounge towards me, before
bending down and placing her burden on the coffee table
between our chairs.
This became the regular pattern whenever
I visited her on my own or with my wife during those first two
years. Then she changed. The first thing I noticed was the
absence of her cheery, ‘Shall I put the kettle on Lieutenant[1]?’
when I entered her home, as her warmth towards us was replaced
by a cold indifference. Gone too was the natural flow of
conversation. Something of a scowl seemed to permanently
replace her smile. At first I thought she had had bad news or
something had happened to her that I had not been told about.
When I asked her if she was all right her reply was, ‘Yes, why
shouldn’t I be?’
There was a decisive moment when her mood changed, and I knew
that something had happened to upset her, but she would not
open up and tell me what it was. It never occurred to me that
it had anything to do with me, as I only saw her when I
visited her. The only other contact I had with her was by
phone when I would ring her to check that she was keeping
well. Initially, I thought it was a temporary thing and that
things would be back to normal the next time I visited. They
weren’t. In fact, they were never the same again. A definite
feeling began to grow within me that I had said something or
done something to upset her, though I had no idea what on
earth it could be.
Whilst the visits were no longer pleasant and I no longer
looked forward to them, I continued to call there every few
weeks just the same. Often I would ask her, ‘Have I said
anything to upset you? Have I done anything?’ to which her
reply was always the same, ‘No, what could you have said or
done to upset me?’ I tried apologising for whatever it was
that I may have been responsible for, but this was just met
with silence. Though I now dreaded these visits, I still felt
sorry for this lonely old soul, but I also wondered what good
my visits were doing her. They were definitely not doing me
any good! Sitting with her in her lounge as she looked out of
the window, refusing to say much, placed me in an
uncomfortable spot for sure.
About a year after this awkwardness
began, I was making my final visit before being moved to a new
appointment[2].
I told her what was happening and where we were going, but she
showed no interest. I asked her questions about herself and
got minimal replies. At the end of my ordeal, I prayed with
her and for her. As I stretched out my hand to shake hers,
thanking her for her kindness to me, (for she had been kind
during those first two years), she responded by flopping her
limp hand into mine like a piece of mackerel, without holding
or gripping my hand in response.
‘Obviously, I won’t be seeing you again, but I do wish you
well and God’s blessing upon you. I’ll see myself out.’ It was
as I was closing the lounge door behind me that she suddenly
called me back into the room.
‘Lieutenant, I have something I need to say before you go.’
In my naivety I thought to myself, ‘Thank goodness for that,’
as I stepped back into the room, ‘this is no way for two
Christians to part,’ and I then just stood and waited for her
to gather her thoughts before she continued.
‘As you know, my parents were among the group of pioneers who
walked all the way from Wrexham to the village to start The
Salvation Army there.’ She had told me this several times
since first I met her. In fact I learnt much from her about
the corps’ history. ‘And so between my parents and I,’ she
continued, ‘we have known every officer that has ever been
stationed here.’ That was true, and in the early years
officers never stayed more than one year. Many only stayed a
few months. In fact, the previous year had been the corps’
centenary year and I had researched the corps’ history and
found that there had been an unbelievable ninety-two officers
or officer couples before my wife and I were appointed. I had
no idea where all this was leading or the brick of a statement
that she was about to unleash on my unprepared ears, something
that would fly around inside my head like an unstoppable
squash ball bouncing between the walls of a squash court. ‘I
need to tell you that you are the worst officer this corps has
ever had!’
It was quite some time before I was able to compose myself to
make my way home. I was relieved that no-one came near my car
to observe me while I sat there booing. Several times during
that journey home I stopped to check in my mirror to see if
the redness of my eyes and all signs of my tears were gone, as
my wife had enough on her plate without having to be concerned
about me. The children greeted me as I opened the front door,
and much noise and chatter followed, but other than Judy
commenting on the fact that I was a little subdued, nothing
else was said.
We were without a corps secretary so each week I assisted the
treasurer in completing the corps accounts and preparing the
banking. We did this in the front room of our home. The hall
was some distance away and would have needed to be heated
before we got there so it was convenient for us both. As we
sat opposite one another with the cash and cheques and books
between us, the treasurer asked me, ‘Is everything all right
Leff?’ Initially I assured him that everything was all right,
but I was quieter than normal and he persisted in his concern
for me.
He was a reliable leader and much respected, just a few years
older than myself. I knew that I could confide in him. Other
than bringing it to the Lord, I had not wanted to share what
had been said with anyone else, but I conceded to his
persistence. When I finished conveying the story of my
relationship over the past twelve months and its culmination,
he smiled, ‘Leff, ignore her. What does she know about you and
what you have done? I know it’s not her fault, but she never
ever gets to the hall. She’s unable to come near the corps.
All she knows is what she picks up from the phone calls she
gets, and we all know who it is that rings round and upsets
folks with their distortion of the facts. Forget it.’
I wanted to forget it. The treasurer was right. What did she
know about me or the corps? But I couldn’t get it out of my
mind. In the days, and indeed weeks and months, that followed
I went over and over the last three years of our stay there
with a fine tooth comb, analysing, comparing, justifying, and
putting together a defence of myself as though I was going to
court. ‘How could anyone think, let alone say, that I am
the worst officer they have ever had?’
[1]
Lieutenant is a
probationary title/rank given to newly commissioned
Salvation Army Officers, which they have for their
first five years of ministry.
[2]
In The Salvation Army
officers do not choose where they go or apply for
posts or positions, but are appointed to what is
considered by senior leaders to be where God would
have them be. These days, in addition to prayer, such
decisions are not made without consulting the officer
and considering their personal circumstances as well
their particular gifting.
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